So you’re a dumper.
You broke someone’s heart.
Someone you cared deeply for a long time.
It’s never easy to tell someone that you no longer have feelings for them.
Now you haven’t told us how you did it, but you did break up with someone.
No one walks away from a relationship without bruises or scars.
But the truth is, you shouldn’t have to apologize for dumping someone.
If back then it didn’t feel right to be with this person then you did the right thing when you decided to leave.
Of course feeling guilty is very common.
Apologizing could sound like a great solution, but even if you didn’t act well or make the best choices in your relationship, you need to forgive yourself and move on.
Nikki, you are too precious to feel like you need to apologize after all this time.
You might even bring back old scars if you message your ex.
Is it really worth it?
We suggest turning the page.
Explore new things or new people.
Yes your ex might think you were the worst girlfriend ever for the rest of his life, but that doesn’t matter.
What truly matters is how you grow from your last experience.
So take this time to reflect on what you did and how you can do better the next time.
The Working Girls, xo