Let’s face it, being dumped sucks.
Not only does it hurt, but it keeps you guessing if what happened was “the right thing to do”.
You want to just “get over it”, everyone around you, family and friends, are telling you that you’re better off.
But, now he just showed up and tells you he wants you back.
We obviously cannot tell you what to do, but we can give you a few tricks and things to consider.
What exactly does he mean when he says he wants you back? After the pain of a breakup, you might want to ask yourself why your ex is coming back. Especially if he is the one who called it quits.
What happened to make him change his mind? Is it simply because he doesn’t want to be alone, or that he misses you?
Can the issues in the relationship fix themselves or not?
Simply put, when he tells you he wants you back, think about how you feel.
It’s imperative that you both understand what went wrong, what you each want, and how you’re going to work towards common goals.
Oh and if you’re family and friends we’re right… well we can help you move on… But that’s for another time!
Hope this helps!