It takes forever to find someone. After going on a few dates you both decide that it’s time to take this thing up a notch— a relationship.
But a few months in the relationship or luckily for you a few years later you find yourself in a rut.
This routine you’ve got going was fun for a while but now you’re getting bored.
Sometimes it almost seems impossible to get out of it.
How do you tell him?
Here are 5 ways to be more spontaneous for your partner and bring back a little spice into your relationship.
No matter what you think you need to do today, it’s possible to ditch it all for a weekend getaway. Everyone needs a break from their usual routine of work, home, and children. You can get a room at a hotel or plan to have the house to yourselves. Just the anticipation of being together alone will bring back the sparks in your romantic life.
Do things that scare you
Once your schedule is clear, try stepping out of your comfort zone and do things that scare you, like jumping out of a plane at 14,000 ft . Doing something different with your partner can enhance strong emotions that can bring you closer together.
Change it up
If every Saturday you go to the movies and every Sunday you go to your cottage, everything is planned out in front of you and you feel as if every weekend is repetitive. Simply adding a twist to your daily activities will allow you to have more freedom to give to your relationship.
Make time to really communicate. Put down the remote control or whatever you’re doing, turn towards your partner, and ask them what they would like to talk about. Take the time and tell them they look wonderful or sexy.
You don’t always have to be with your partner. Take some time off and go shopping with your friends. Give each other some freedom, so after that spa day with your friends you’ll find yourself desiring him more!
Taking the time to intensify romance in your relationship is crucial when creating a fulfilling love life.
Do not be afraid to try something new.